01 How to Stand up to a Relationship That Ends in Failure 1
02 Academic Failure, Confession of Love, Feeling Lost,
and Others 5
03 We Are Not What We Were 11
04 Confession of Love, Complaint about Life, Public
Speeches, Personalities, Roommates, and Others 20
05 Get One Thing Well Done during the Winter Vacation 25
06 University Life, Resume , Long-distance Relationship,
and Others 33
07 On Life and Death 38
08 Unshown Talents, Relationships, and Others 47
09 Honestly, You Do Not Know Much about Journey
to the West 51
10 Studying, Confessing Love, Feeling Lost, Top Students,
and Others 64
11 Looking Forward to the One, and Only Blessing 68
12 Parents Fighting, Ex-girlfriend, and Others 75
13 Choosing between Seeking Jobs and Pursuing
Graduate Study 80
14 Rejection, Part-time Job, the Meaning of University
Life, and Others 88
15 You Dont Have to Please Everyone 92
16 Kissing a Stranger, Heyi Hotel Incident, Slanders,
GraduateSchoolEntrance Examination, and Others 100
17 Believe in the Bright Side of This World 106
18 KobeBryant, Urban Inspectors, Heather, Optional
Courses, and Others 115
19 Why Did I Join the Communist Party ofChina 119
20 Cute Guys, Women with Doctoral Degrees, Starting
Businesses, Brokenhearted, and Others 132
21 Why Should Everyone Cheer for You 138
22 Song Joongki, Roommates, Discrimination against
Northern Jiangsu, and Others 148
23 On Trust and Doubt 152
24 Break-up, Study, Conflicts, and Others 157
25 On Wei and Jin Dynasties 161
26 Life in the Eyes of Chuang Tzu 166
27 WeChat Moments, Being Cornered, Boring Classes,
Boy-Girl Friendship, and Others 171
28 Attitudes towards Life in Zen Buddhism 176
29 Jealousy, Internet Browsing Records, Gay, and Others 183
30 On Love 188
31 On English Tonight 194
32 OnTaiwan 204
33 To Tell You a Story about a Woman 214
34 OnPhoenixMen and Peacock Women 221
35 On Student Advisors 233
36 About theGraduateSchoolEntrance
Examination 240
37 On Being Single 249
38 The Pork Intestines in Life and Personality 258
39 My View on Campus Life 262
40 Desire, Standfast, andNot Disturbed by a Woman
on Ones Lap 266
41 Confession of Love, Education Background,
Independence, Parents, and Others 270
Appendix
Bits of Thought I 275
Bits of Thought II 277
Bits of Thought III 280
Bits of Thought IV 283
Bits of Thought V 287
Bits of Thought VI 291