Chapter 1 男人来自火星，女人来自金星
时间是爱的养料·Express Your Love, Don’t Buy It
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男人来自火星，女人来自金星·
Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus
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完美爱人·In Life, We are Happiest When...
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生活中浪漫的插曲·Romantic Interlude
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向他倾诉·Telling Him·
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汉诺威广场，不见不散·My Darling Wife
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亲爱的，请允许我·Please Let Me Have a Little World
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你的手机还开着吗·Late at Night
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假如我知道·If I Knew
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你还记得吗·Yellow Post-Its By Ishita Vora
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一眼定情·The Eyes of Love
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有爱的心永无寒霜·Keep Walking in Sunshine
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爱人，我在等你·A Sometimes Beautiful Thing
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至 爱·Moments of Love
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心 间·Among the Hearts
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恋爱中的诗人·Unbosoming Myself
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Chapter2 假如你爱得够深
深爱无言·The Silent Love
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爱因艰难而美好·Love Is Difficult
勒内·马利亚·里尔克 Rainer Maria Rilke
单纯如歌的爱·Our Love Is Simple as a Song
勒内·马利亚·里尔克 Rainer Maria Rilke
用虔诚的爱来迎接今天·I Will Greet This Day with Love in My Heart
奥格·曼迪诺 Og Mandino
爱的赞美诗·The Gift of Love
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用爱拥抱世界·Three Kinds of Love
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爱情是一部电话·Love Is a Telephone
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致我最爱的人·To A.P.Kern
亚历山大·普希金 Alexander Pushkin
希望你一切都好·I Wish You Well
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我用自己的方式去爱你·Love
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每周写一封爱的信·Once a Week,Write a Heartfelt Letter
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你就这样地来吧·Come as You Are
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假如你爱得够深·If You Love Her Enough
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幸福指数·Happiness Index
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婚姻美满度对健康的影响
A Happy Marriage Can Help Mend Physical Wounds
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爱的翅膀·Let Go Love
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亲昵语言缔造美满婚姻·The Little Words That Work Marriage Magic
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Chapter 3 以爱之名
婚·姻·On Marriage
卡里·纪伯伦 Kahlil Gibran
婚姻的最佳境界·Making Marriage the Best It Can Be
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你应该知道的男人秘密·Do You Really Understand Men
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爱情不是交易品·Love Is not Like Merchandise
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男人不要装聋·Husband Should Hear,Wife Shouldn’t Take It Seriously
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爱·On Love
卡里·纪伯伦 Kahlil Gibran
爱的过程·Let Go
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灵魂的限度·The Story of Life
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婚姻、爱和自由可以并存吗·Marriage, Love and Freedom
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爱源于微笑·Love from Smile
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以眼交流·Eyes Can Speak
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爱的两个世界·The Lover and the Beloved
卡森·麦卡勒斯 ／ Carson McCullers
你会懂得……·After a While...
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给生活的建议·Instructions for Life
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你应当知道的智慧箴言·Moving Thoughts
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世间最美丽的心·The Most Beautiful Heart
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治疗心灵创伤的药物·Medicine for a Broken Heart
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內容試閱：
时间是爱的养料
Express Your Love, Don’t Buy It
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Many times, the small things in life, which we often ignore, are
more important than the ones that we consider far more valuable.
This theme is highlighted in Kenny Rogers’ song “Buy Me a Rose”. In
his song, he insists on the fact that the expression of love plays
a significant role in a relationship. However, many people seem to
ignore this fact and assume that love can be expressed through
wealth and riches.
In his song, Kenny Rogers narrates the story of a wife whose
husband loves her very much. However, she thinks that the way her
husband shows her his love is not appropriate. According to her
husband, the best way of showing his love to his wife is by
providing her with all the wealth and comforts of life.
Consequently, he works hard day and night and is thus not able to
devote any of his time to her. His wife, however, argues that this
is not what she wants. All she wants for him is to show her more
affection by giving her more of his time, caring for her and by
expressing his feelings for her. These are the things that she
yearns for in her life and not the big, flashy things that he has
given her.
“Buy me a rose, call me from work,
Open a door for me, what would it hurt?
Show me you love me by the look in your eyes,
These are the little things I need the most in my life.”
To her, these are all the things that can bring her maximum joy
and happiness. Although her husband loves her very much, his way of
showing his love for her is creating distances between the two. And
as time passes by, the distance keeps increasing.
This song expresses how we lead our lives in today’s world and
how we think that it takes a lot to make a person happy. It is
always the simple pleasures of life which make a difference. It is
never the big and flashy things.
The main idea of “Buy Me a Rose” is that people who are closer to
us deserve more sincere expressions of our love, which may be found
in smaller things in life. Spending time with them rather than
spending money on them is a better way of expressing our love. We
should learn to express our feelings than to show our love through
material goods.
Express your love.
记忆填空
1. In his song, he insists on the fact that the expression of
love plays a
significant
in a relationship.
, many people seem to ignore
this and
assume that love can be expressed through wealth and riches.
2. to her
husband, the best way of showing his love to his wife is by
providing her with all
the and
comforts of life.
3. This song expresses how we lead our lives in today’s world
and we think
that it takes a lot to make a
person
.
短语应用
1. He insists on the fact that the expression of love plays a
significant role in a relationship.
insist
on：坚持；强调
2. He works hard day and night and is thus not able to devote any
of his time to her.
devote to：把……专用于；完全用于某事或做某事
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男人来自火星，女人来自金星
Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus
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Imagine that men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
One day long ago, the Martians, looking through their telescopes,
discovered the Venusians. Just glimpsing the Venusians awakened
feelings they had never known. They fell in love and quickly
invented space travel and flew to Venus. The Venusians welcomed the
Martians with open arms. The love between the Venusians and
Martians was magical. They delighted in being together, doing
things together and sharing together. Both the Martians and
Venusians forgot that they were from different planets, and were
supposed to be different. And one morning, everything they had
learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And
since that day, men and women have been in conflict.
The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is
that men don’ t listen. Either a man completely ignores her when
she speaks, or he listens for a few beats, assesses what’ s
bothering her, and then he proudly puts on his Mr. Fix-it hat, and
offers her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many
times she tells him that he’ s not listening, he doesn’ t get it,
and he keeps doing the same thing. She wants sympathy, but he
thinks she wants solutions.
The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is
that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a
man, she feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to
help him improve the way he does things. She forms the Home
Improvement Committee, and he becomes her primary focus. No matter
how much he resists her help, she persists, waiting for an
opportunity to help him or to tell him what to do. She thinks she’
s nurturing him, while he feels he’ s being controlled. Martians
value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. Their sense
of self is defined through their ability to achieve results.
Achieving goals is very important to a Martian, because it’ s the
way for him to prove his competence and thus feel good about
himself. And for him to feel good about himself, he must achieve
these goals alone, by himself. To offer a man unsolicited advice is
to presume that he doesn’ t know what to do or that he can’ t do it
on his own.
Men are very touchy about this, because the issue of competence
is so very important to them. However, if he truly does need help,
then it’ s a sign of wisdom to get it. In this case, he’ ll find
someone he respects and then talk about his problem. Talking about
a problem on Mars is an invitation for advice. Another Martian
feels honored by the opportunity. Automatically, he puts on his Mr.
Fix-it hat, listens for a few beats, and then offers some jewels of
advice. This Martian custom is one of the reasons men instinctively
offer solutions when a woman talks about her feelings or about her
problems.
Venusians have different values. Their sense of self is defined
through their feelings and the quality of their relationships and
their communication. They experience fulfillment through sharing
and relating. Communication is of primary importance. To share
their personal feelings is much more important than achieving goals
or success. Talking and relating to one another is a source of
tremendous fulfillment. Instead of being goal-oriented, women are
relationship-oriented. They are more concerned with expressing
their goodness, their love, their caring. Venusians are very
intuitive. They pride themselves on being considerate of the needs
and feelings of others. A sign of great love is to offer help and
assistance to another Venusian without even being asked. Without
this insight into the nature of men, it’ s very easy for a woman to
unknowingly and unintentionally hurt and offend the man she loves
most.
Love is magical, and it can last if we remember our
differences.
记忆填空
1. They delighted in being together, doing
things and
sharing together. Both the Martians
and forgot
that they were from
planets, and were supposed to be different.
2. No matter
how he
resists her help, she persists, waiting for
an y to help him or
to tell him
to do. She thinks she’s nurturing him, while he feels he’s
being .
3. is of
primary importance. To share their personal feelings is much
more than
achieving goals or success.
短语应用
1. Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks, or
he...
either...or...：要么……要么；不是……就是……
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2. ...to assist him in growing and tries to help...
assist ... in...：帮助；协助；援助
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